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Apologizing

CarnivaL

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Apologizing
does not always means
you are wrong
and
the other person
is right
it means
you value
your relationship
more than your
EGO
Orae oru doubt, edhavdhu thappu panitu, adha realize pana piragum, othukama, apologize panaama irukradhu dhanae inga Ego nu mention pani irukinga !?
Ilaaa, thappae panama iruntu, sorry sollalanaalum adhuvum Ego dhanaa ?
 

Nakshathra

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Orae oru doubt, edhavdhu thappu panitu, adha realize pana piragum, othukama, apologize panaama irukradhu dhanae inga Ego nu mention pani irukinga !?
Ilaaa, thappae panama iruntu, sorry sollalanaalum adhuvum Ego dhanaa ?
Haha ?
 

Mazhai

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Ego is self esteem, it is never bad to have an ego. If you are choosing someone else over your ego, you are essentially losing self identity.

It is sad people are fine losing themselves to keep others in their life.
‘I’ is as important as ‘you’ in ‘i love you’
 

CarnivaL

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Ego is self esteem, it is never bad to have an ego. If you are choosing someone else over your ego, you are essentially losing self identity.

It is sad people are fine losing themselves to keep others in their life.
‘I’ is as important as ‘you’ in ‘i love you’
Well Said !!!!
 

Nakshathra

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Ego is self esteem, it is never bad to have an ego. If you are choosing someone else over your ego, you are essentially losing self identity.

It is sad people are fine losing themselves to keep others in their life.
‘I’ is as important as ‘you’ in ‘i love you’
Self identity is important I'm agreed. but relationship( any relationship brother sister , lover) intha relationship ku aga konjam self identity lose panalum I'm ok with it .it's my personal opinion ??
 

Mazhai

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Self identity is important I'm agreed. but relationship( any relationship brother sister , lover) intha relationship ku aga konjam self identity lose panalum I'm ok with it .it's my personal opinion ??
Sure, naanum elaa relationship kum thaan sonen.
But ipidi yosichu paarunga, if you can come into terms with your ego, convince yourself that you can be better, you can retain ego and give a sincere apology
 

CarnivaL

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Thappu pantom nu realize pani apologize pana okay dhann.. but simply relationship kaaga sorry apdindra word use pana,, neenga fake panringa nu dhanae artham ?
Apologies must b sincere
 

Nakshathra

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Thappu pantom nu realize pani apologize pana okay dhann.. but simply relationship kaaga sorry apdindra word use pana,, neenga fake panringa nu dhanae artham ?
Apologies must b sincere
Seriously intha message ena na oruthar kovama irukanga apdina neenga vitu kuduthu poga maatingla ??? Nan pana thappuku Oru reason irukuna situation apdi aaiduchu athuku sorry solanumnu ila but Nan sorry kekuren atha than Sola try panren .. ithula enga fake iruku nu nenga nenaikuringa ... Ithula Nan thappe panla nu ego ah iruka mudium but enaku apdi iruka pidikathu sorry solurenu solren ...
 

Nakshathra

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Thappu pantom nu realize pani apologize pana okay dhann.. but simply relationship kaaga sorry apdindra word use pana,, neenga fake panringa nu dhanae artham ?
Apologies must b sincere
And carnival Nan ungata sorry ketene yesterday athula fake ah ethum therinjutha ena????
 

EVILL

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Ego is self esteem, it is never bad to have an ego. If you are choosing someone else over your ego, you are essentially losing self identity.

It is sad people are fine losing themselves to keep others in their life.
‘I’ is as important as ‘you’ in ‘i love you’
It all depends on wat / who is me, if losing myself to hold back others is wat me is, then it doesn't really mean that i lose myself doing so

Rather i would call it (losing) as understanding

The 'You' you got by losing 'I' is nothing but 'We'

Thala sonna mari, oru melisana kodu, kodu ku antha pakkam ego intha pakkam understanding
 

Mazhai

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It all depends on wat / who is me, if losing myself to hold back others is wat me is, then it doesn't really mean that i lose myself doing so

Rather i would call it (losing) as understanding

The 'You' you got by losing 'I' is nothing but 'We'

Thala sonna mari, oru melisana kodu, kodu ku antha pakkam ego intha pakkam understanding
Not at all, ego naaale self centered and selfish ila. It is just your self esteem. Understanding varanum na you will only have to convince ego not lose it.

If you are changing yourself for others, for whatever reason, there will be a point when no one will recognize who you are anymore. You will behave differently with each person and this will get tiring. At one point all that sacrificing your true self will weigh on you and conflict with yourself.

Be yourself, if you do have an inflated ego, it is still you. The least you could do is show your true colors and let others decide if they want to stay or leave. By sacrificing/trying to change yourself, it is not going to end well for anyone.
 
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